How to Approach Women
 

How to Approach Women

If you ever wished to approach a random cute girl and begin a conversation with her but yet couldn’t… then this will be the most important group of text you ever read.

Approaching women, if you break it down, should you look at it from a detached perspective, is simple. After all, you just need to take the 1st step or continue until you’re close enough to talk.

Close enough to get her attention, if you don’t have it already, and you start the conversation.

That simple act of walking towards her is the hardest part. Why? Because of fear. Because you’ve never done it before. Because of other excuses that pops up in your head. How do you get over this fear? More about that later.

There’s something you need to know first. This is important. And your success depends on whether you can pull this off or not. And that’s having a good…

First Impression

That’s right. In approaching or in meeting some-one new, first impressions is critical. It is every thing.

You only have a few seconds to make her think you are confident, a success, and worth talking to. So make it count.

Attraction begins at that moment. You need to be confident, relax, and relaxed. As you probably already know, confidence plays a huge part in attracting women.

Now… there are ways to get over your fear or anxiety. Done multiple times, you’ll have the balls to…

approach any girl you like

You begin with what’s easy. You don’t want to lift two hundred lbs of weight when you’re still skinny. That would be suicide.

So, take simple steps that are easy. Like asking a simple question with a simple answer.

Do it a couple of times or move on to something else. A longer question with a longer answer. As you gain the experience it will be easier and easier to approach all girl you see. Because you’re gaining confidence.

There’s also the three second rule. What you do is walk up to her within three seconds and not a second later.

If you do go over three secs, you’ll start thinking self-defeating thoughts. You’ll get nervous. You’ll convince yourself not to approach. You’ll think of all sort of reasons not to. She’s talking on the phone. She’s not that pretty. She’ll probably reject me. Or you’ll agree with yourself. The fix…

approach immediately

 

How to Approach Women

Don’t just stare at her for two hours without doing anything. If you do she’ll leave and you’ll feel down for letting a good chance slip by. So go over there and remember the three second rule.
Now, not all girls will cooperate and talk to you. It happens. So expect it. Don’t deny the possibility of rejection. It’s part of the game. The faster you get over it the better off you’ll be. And the faster you’ll improve.
To make it easier to accept rejection, there’s a couple of mindsets you can adopt.
Do it for fun: Since you’re doing it for fun… you don’t care what happens. You’re having fun and that’s what’s important right at that moment. And women will feel that too. If they’re fun they’ll have fun with you.
Or, you can avoid getting rejected altogether. If you can read body language, you’ll know when she’s ready to be approached.
She’ll be sending you all sorts of signals. And you’ll know if she’s interested or not by those signals she’s sending your way. This should tell you something…

Women want to be approached

Why? Because when you approach, they’ll feel attractive and feminine. If you don’t, they’ll doubt themselves. So, If they’re inviting you, don’t turn them down. If you still can’t, that must be because of one other reason.

The other thing that stops guys from approaching is they don’t know what to say to her. What to do later. And how to begin the conversation after the initial set of words.

For what to say: Once you get close, there are a couple of ways to open.

One is to go direct. Tell her your intentions directly. This shows you have balls and works much better during the day. Know that you’re forcing her to make a decision based on your approach. Is it a ‘Yes’ or a ‘No’.

An extra way to go is under the radar. You’ll begin with an innocent question and statement and let her get a “taste” of your personality. And then later on in the conversation, you get your intentions clear.

There after, you can talk about anything. You can use this anywhere that’s because…

There’s no place or situation where you can’t approach

You can apply it in the street, schools, clubs, cafe, library… anywhere. Whether you’re shopping, dancing, and running.

So… don’t let anything stop you. Be confident. Approach immediately. or have fun.

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Signs Your Girlfriend is Cheating

Signs Your Girlfriend is Cheating

As long as relationships have existed so to has infidelity. When your girlfriend starts acting suspicious you may start to wonder if she is secretly seeing someone else.
Before you accuse her of anything look for signs your girlfriend is cheating. Of course you want to be sure she is being faithful to you, but wrongfully accusing someone of cheating does a lot of damage to a relationship.
There are 6 ways of how to tell if your girlfriend is cheating. These are characteristics that most cheaters share in common. These are normal everyday reactions and attitudes to keep an eye on.


1) She doesn't return your calls
 
She's okay with you going out with your friends in the wee hours of the morning and doesn't really inquire about your whereabouts. Not unless you tell her about it, of course. She also does not make an effort to tell you where she's going or about her plans for the weekend.

2) Emails, websites and more
 
One way to check for signs of faithlessness is to inspect their computer and check their emails, who have they been messaging online, and which websites they have been visiting. Dating sites are a dead giveaway but who they have been interacting with on Facebook or other social sites might also provide evidence or clues to cheating.

3) Hides Messages
 
Hidden text messages, emails and phone calls should send up a red flag. Unless she is planning some sort of surprise party for you there is no need of hiding who she is in contact with. There is a certain amount of trust that you must have for your girlfriend, but she certainly does not need to act suspicious.
4) She doesn't initiate intimacy
 She doesn't have time to make love, she doesn't linger when you kiss and she's always seemed distant for some reason --- well of course, she tells you she loves you and all --- but a little intimacy counts a lot in a relationship. Better assess the situation now.

 5) Obvious Physical Signs of a Cheating Girlfriend
 
There are the usual obvious physical signs of a cheating girlfriend that you should watch out for like coming home smelling like cologne, coming home with damp hair or with hair that smells like a different shampoo, or coming home with her blouse buttoned crooked...or even on inside out.

6) She stops talking about a guy friend
 
Women will always have guy friends in their lives. Most of the time, you can trust these platonic friends. You'll often hear your girl talk about these men because she has no "feelings" for them.
But if she has a guy friend and suddenly STOPS talking about him, then you should start to worry. It might be a sign that she is trying to keep a budding romance off your radar. If she is now dating this guy, then she'll do her best to hide it from you.

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Girlfriend is losing interest

Girlfriend is losing interest

Girlfriend is losing interest

Watch out for these 4 danger signs that your girlfriend is losing interest in you and becoming more distant and detached. Perhaps you sense that the two of you are heading for a break up, and you want to stop it. That is good. So first, we will look at these warning signs. Then we will talk about what to do to really get your girlfriend back.

1) LACK OF INTEREST

This is the difficult one because you remember a time when life was so much better for the two of you. Do you remember wanting to spend all your time with each other when you first met? Do you remember having so much to talk about when you first started dating? If your girlfriend is just not that interested anymore, do something different. Couples get complacent and lazy. They just stop trying. Take her somewhere that you two have never been. Do not go somewhere the two of you have been a million times. Maybe a different restaurant or a different city. Regardless, shake it up a bit. Do not talk about anything serious, keep it light and especially fun. We will appreciate that.

2) Is Your Girlfriend Requesting More Space?
Have you been noticing that your girlfriend has been shying away from your company? If you notice that you're girl is asking for more space, this is one of the signs your girlfriend wants to breakup with you. But let's not panic! All I'm suggesting is that you need to get alert and address this issue or there is a strong possibility that you might lose your partner.

3) LACK OF AFFECTION

A general lack of affection is a sure sign of things on a downward spiral. When a woman decides that she's not interested anymore, it is time to really back off. Give her space. Remember that women love space. When a women loses the desire to be affectionate, do something nice and simple. Maybe a nice note on her car before she goes to work or have a bath drawn for her with some candles when she comes home for work. The key is to not expect anything in return. Do it because you care, not because you want something. She will pick up on that like a hawk and will appreciate you for it.

4) meets the eye!

Partners often reach a point in relationship when they need more space and time so that they can take a breather and pull things together. Now, there's nothing wrong with it, but sometimes this mere request can mean much more. Has your girlfriend made the same request to you and is she often finding ways to get away from you? If so, this is a sign your girlfriend wants to breakup with you. You need not remain inactive in such a situation or your worst fears may come true!

Okay now what do you do to fix this? To begin with, you need to get some idea of what went so badly wrong in your relationship, if you do not know already. Only then can you start working on the job to get your girlfriend back. If you acted like an idiot, it will be hard to face up to it and be honest with yourself. Give it a real try anyway.

This is a thought: ask your friends what THEY think the problem is. If you are really brave and fearless, ask your girlfriend's friends for their opinion. But watch out. You are likely to get an unpleasant earful. Stay calm. Do not get mad, even if you are sure the opinions are dead wrong. Thank the person for their thoughts and input.

If you get angry and go nuts, you are just confirming to these friends what they believed all along, that you are basically a jerk who is not right for your girlfriend. Will not give them this satisfaction. Show everyone that THEY are wrong, that you can change and get your girlfriend back. Believe me, it is really satisfying and fulfilling to prove people wrong on such an important matter.

Now you know what the problem areas are, and what you need to work on. Do not be discouraged. Above all, do not sit at home and brood and sulk, or at least not for too long. It is NOT all your fault, no matter what those so-called friends told you.

Remember this. A funny thing happens when you just sit at home in front of the TV: nothing! That's right, nothing at all. To get your girlfriend back, you need to do something. It is unlikely to happen by itself. Take action, change, improve, do new things.

Everyone who got where they are in this life, had to start where they were. No exceptions. What about you? Why not get started right now? Use my trial and success method. Learn how to improve and succeed, by failing and learning from your mistakes! 

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Kiss Technique

Kiss Technique

You're about to learn, hands down, the best way to successfully get a girl to kiss you without tension of rejection. In the advanced version of this technique, you can even get the girl you're talking to to lean in to kiss you!

So if you've ever been afraid of getting rejected going for a kiss OR you've gotten "the cheek" you know why having a rock-solid technique to moving in for the kiss is 100% crucial.

Going in for the kiss is probably the worst place to face rejection in an interaction with a girl because:

1) You've invested a lot of TIME by this point in the interaction, or there simply isn't enough time in your night to get this far and then hit a brick wall and have to move on.

2) Screwing up this part of the interaction can ruin all chances of moving on from here to seduction.

Most guys don't have the chance to learn how to perfect going for a kiss because it happens so infrequently!

Even on a good night, most guys will typically find one girl they hit it off with at the bar where a kiss is probably even a possibility.

So normally, you'd have to face a lot of these rejections one by one to learn the best way to successfully go in for a kiss.

But luckily, I've already gone through all those failures for you (until I discovered this killer technique), and can present the best way to avoid failure and shortcut right to success.

Sound good?

The Kiss Technique makes it so that when you're speaking to a woman, you can intentionally give off subconscious triggers that will make her think about kissing you!

Pretty powerful stuff...

If you use this technique, suddenly making a woman want to kiss you will be something you have control over.

If you decide to "wing it" in the stage like most guys, however, you're going to run into problems...

First, you won't know how physically receptive she is to kissing you. A tried and true rule to go by is this:

Your hesitation = Her reservation

So the more you hesitate, the worse your chances get, because she starts to build up all sorts of red flags and reservations.

When you go to lean in for the kiss and you don't do it the correct way at the right time, you'll come off as needy (like you don't have a lot of options with women) because if you did have a lot of options, you wouldn't be worrying about the kiss with this girl.

So how do we show that you are absolutely NOT needy (even if you kind of feel like you are) and provide a way so that you will not fear rejection because you will know for sure ahead of time that she is wanting to kiss you?

We use what's called The Kiss Technique.

This involves combining two psychological concepts into a perfect recipe for mastering the kiss.

The first concept is called triangular gazing.

This will happen while you have built rapport and are looking to move into seduction. It involves looking from one eye to another, then looking at her mouth.

When you start looking at her mouth, you will subconsciously start to think about kissing her, because this action is already anchored to the thought of kissing someone.

Even if you look at a woman you're not attracted to and look at her mouth, you can start to think about kissing her, and you will become MORE attracted to her.

The good news is...the same happens for women.

The even BETTER news is...you can lead her to subconsciously start to do this and feel more attracted. How?

By using the second half of the recipe...another psychological concept called Mirroring.

Whenever we are in conversation with someone, we will mirror the leader of the conversation in an attempt to build subconscious rapport with them.

When you perfectly combine triangular gazing and mirroring, you have a combination that will make her subconsciously think about kissing you.

After talking with her in rapport, start to look at her mouth. At first, only for two seconds, then look back to her eyes. Switch between her left and right eye, then back to her mouth for a few seconds longer.

Continue to go from left to right eye and back to her mouth for two seconds, three seconds, then five seconds.

Eventually, you want to be mostly looking at her mouth.

When she begins to look at your mouth as well, you know for sure that she's ready to kiss you.

Voila! The Kiss Technique takes all of the guess work out of "making a move".

You will now know with confidence when she wants to kiss you, and get to be the fully assertive but perceptive man that women find irresistibly sexy.

She will feel like you know exactly how to treat a woman and feel safe and confident moving on with you.

Now, if you want to take this technique to the next level and make it so that girls will be leaning in to you and basically begging you to kiss them, you only have to know one magical sentence.

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What might make an average looking guy instantly become 'hot'?

What might make an average looking guy instantly become 'hot'?

If you talk to any number of super hot girls and approach them, you will start to see one thing over and over - she is going to test you. If you fail these tests, you will not not hook up with her. Period. You will join the piles of men she's had to reject because they weren't confident enough.
The GOOD news is, that there is a way to pass these tests nearly 100% of the time. 

Most really hot girls' tests are enough to make men run away with their tails between their legs. If you know the technique to passing, then you are going to be in the VERY small percentage of guys who make it through her defenses and are actually a sexual candidate.

If you don't know this one secret technique, you will fail these tests and never gain entrance into the world of attracting and sleeping with truly beautiful women.

These tests can be one of two types: compliance tests or congruence tests. Today, we are talking about compliance tests. First, let me explain a bit more about these tests and WHY hot women NEED them.

A compliance test is an act or a statement that checks to see if you are going to do whatever she wants. If you comply, she will have gained control over the conversation, the interaction, and you. It seems like they want you to fail these tests so they have the power, right?

Fortunately, that is not the case. When women give compliance tests, they really do want you to pass them. It is their way of filtering out a truly confident, attractive guy from the rest. It may sound strange, but beautiful women honestly can't just look at a guy an say "he's good looking, therefore he's attractive." They need much more because they are approached by so many different types of guys. A really attractive girl will get hit on 10-15 times A DAY.

That's 3,650 times a year (conservatively) that an attractive woman is hit on. She will start to see patterns in the ways guys behave if they are actually confident or not, and that has nothing to do with looks.

The compliance test is really a test to see whether or not they're going to be able to get away with whatever they want. Why you want to test this? Well, they want to find out whether or not you're used to beautiful women hitting on you or whether or not you're used to being with beautiful women.

This is a very crucial concept. If you are used to being with beautiful women, you will not bend over backwards for a beautiful woman just because she wants something. Instead, you will respond in a way that sort of puts the compliance back on her.

Beautiful women are guaranteed to give you compliance tests and if you fail the compliance tests, you are guaranteed not to attract them. So it's very crucial that you learn this.

How do you recognize compliance tests? Basically, look for any demand that she gives you within a short time of meeting that seems small, but gets you to follow.

One very classic compliance test is "buy me a drink."

Women go for throat here when you're in the bar because they don't have a whole lot of time to figure out who is attracted and who is confident, who's not. How you respond to "buy me a drink" is very crucial when you're in a bar.

There are other small things like "why don't you wait here while I go to the bathroom." or "give me a kiss on the cheek" or even "will you take a picture for us?"

Anything that seems kind of harmless is typically a compliance test especially if it's from a really beautiful woman and you don't want to deny the compliance test, what you want to do is take control over it and add your own terms.

For example, if someone says, "Take our pictures." Then you will say, "okay, I will but I want you to take one picture for you and one picture of how I ask you to take it." So if they refused to do this, and you go, "Alright, well find some other guy."

You will actually find some other guy to take the camera and say, "Hey man, can you take their picture?" And you just have them take your picture.
But usually they will say okay fine, you take the picture and you go "okay, now I want you to give me a sexy look." Then take their picture. "Okay now, make a silly face", take a picture. And continue to make them do different pictures as long as you can think of them.

Essentially what you're doing now is you are getting compliance from them. This is crucial. This is called flipping the script and you will hear a lot about this. Flipping the script is one of the most powerful things that you can do to a woman that you don't know and it will create a massive amount of intrigue and a massive amount of attraction that will be built.

So from now on, know and recognize when women is giving you a compliance test. Don't stop and don't reject the compliance test. Add your own terms.

When you start doing this, you are going to see the truly beautiful women in the bar start to treat you in a completely different way. You can actually watch other guys approach, get shot down and see it ruin their nights as you can easily navigate the sea of compliance tests and come out looking like a rockstar, making her more and more attracted to you since you're the kind of guy who won't just do exactly what she wants.

This is one of the "Sexual Triggers" that drive beautiful women wild. The rest of them are revealed in this presentation:

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Surviving A Breakup Write It Down

Surviving A Breakup Write It Down

Right after a relationship ends, surviving a breakup might seem an impossible task. It hurts so much, and it’s easy to think that you’ll never feel happy again. It’s also easy to think that you might never find someone else. A good step to take when surviving a breakup is to start writing all these feelings down. 


Journaling is something that millions of people do every day for a variety of reasons. Some people have kept diaries since they were children. At first they simply wrote down the important things that happened that day. Many children’s diaries are just filled with little lists about what they did all day.

As people get older, their journals and diaries tend to become more introspective. They write about an event and how it made them feel or what they thought it meant. Sometimes they write about how they think a certain event might affect them in the future.

Journaling or keeping a diary can help with surviving a breakup by giving you an outlet to express yourself. You can write things down that you might be uncomfortable saying to someone else. Embarrassing things or things that really upset you so much that you don’t really want to tell anyone can be “told” to your diary.

Many people never start journaling because they don’t think they know how. But there really is no special way to do it. You don’t have to have a special diary or journal to begin. You can write in a regular notebook or keep a file on your computer for your thoughts.

But you can purchase a special book to write in if you want. It can be as casual or as formal as you choose. If it makes you happy, purchase a special journal with a pretty cover and fine paper inside. If not, grab a spiral notebook or open that file in your word processor and start a journal.

As you’re surviving a breakup, when you feel especially sad write about why you think that is and what you think you can do about it. When you’re missing your ex, write about it. It’s okay to cry or feel upset while writing. In fact, it’s good to do so. You’re getting it out.

You don’t have to write in your journal every day. You don’t have to start every entry “Dear Diary” or do it in any specific way. You might scrawl down one sentence, “I hate this!” and three days later write 5 pages of things you won’t miss about your ex and why you’re glad it’s over. All of these are good for you.

Another way to use writing to help get over a relationship is to write a letter to your ex. Write down everything you want to say to him or her, good and bad, and be brutally honest. Now that you’ve purged yourself, throw the letter away.

Surviving a breakup can be made easier by writing down and dealing with your feelings, so give it a try.

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Relationship Breakups - How To Stay Friends

Relationship Breakups - How To Stay Friends

Relationship Breakups - How To Stay Friends

Relationship breakups don’t always mean that the person you’re breaking up with needs to be cut completely out of your life. Many people continue to have warm and satisfying friendships with their exes by making sure that their relationship breakups are done without hurting anyone more than necessary.

There are situations where you know that you don’t really want that person to continue to be in your life. Maybe things that happened during the relationship are just too painful. You feel like you can’t forgive him or her for what they did.

You might be surprised later on once the initial hurt has passed at how differently you feel. While the chances that you would want to get back together with that person are slim, you might discover you really miss having him or her in your life.

This is never more true than when your ex was your friend first. When you had a great friendship and that lead to a romantic relationship, relationship breakups don’t just end the romance, but now you’ve lost that great friendship, too.

It doesn’t have to be that way, though, if the other person wants to keep you in his or her life, too. The only way to find this out is to have a conversation about it. You might be in for a pleasant surprise to discover that your ex still wants to be friends, too.

If you talk to your boyfriend, though, and he has an attitude or is angry and doesn’t want to continue a friendship, then accept it but don’t burn any bridges. Don’t go out with an attitude or become insulting.

There’s always the chance that he can’t see past the hurt and anger he’s feeling, and could change his mind later. But if you throw a few parting shots to make the pain and hurt even worse, you might be sabotaging your chances of having this person as a friend later.

Relationship breakups are never easy, and it’s not necessarily easy to stay friends afterwards. This is true even if you were best friends before you began the romantic relationship. When you’re in a romance with someone, that person knows intimate details about you and your life.

And after a breakup, some people might see those tidbits of information as weapons. It’s very easy to insult someone in a way that you know will really hurt them when you’re hurting, too. The desire to lash out or to protect yourself by striking the first verbal blow is a natural emotional response.

No one knows the little details that can wound you quite as deeply as someone you’ve been in a relationship with. If your ex uses these little things to hurt you, try to keep it in perspective. Yes, it’s painful, but he’s coming from a place of anger, too.

Don’t fight back like that. Take the high road, and be respectful. Even if your relationship breakups don’t end in you remaining friends, you’ll feel better for not making the situation even worse.

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