Watch out for these 4 danger signs that your girlfriend is losing interest in you and becoming more distant and detached. Perhaps you sense that the two of you are heading for a break up, and you want to stop it. That is good. So first, we will look at these warning signs. Then we will talk about what to do to really get your girlfriend back.
1) LACK OF INTEREST
This is the difficult one because you remember a time when life was so much better for the two of you. Do you remember wanting to spend all your time with each other when you first met? Do you remember having so much to talk about when you first started dating? If your girlfriend is just not that interested anymore, do something different. Couples get complacent and lazy. They just stop trying. Take her somewhere that you two have never been. Do not go somewhere the two of you have been a million times. Maybe a different restaurant or a different city. Regardless, shake it up a bit. Do not talk about anything serious, keep it light and especially fun. We will appreciate that.
2) Is Your Girlfriend Requesting More Space?
Have you been noticing that your girlfriend has been shying away from your company? If you notice that you’re girl is asking for more space, this is one of the signs your girlfriend wants to breakup with you. But let’s not panic! All I’m suggesting is that you need to get alert and address this issue or there is a strong possibility that you might lose your partner.
3) LACK OF AFFECTION
A general lack of affection is a sure sign of things on a downward spiral. When a woman decides that she’s not interested anymore, it is time to really back off. Give her space. Remember that women love space. When a women loses the desire to be affectionate, do something nice and simple. Maybe a nice note on her car before she goes to work or have a bath drawn for her with some candles when she comes home for work. The key is to not expect anything in return. Do it because you care, not because you want something. She will pick up on that like a hawk and will appreciate you for it.
4) meets the eye!
Partners often reach a point in relationship when they need more space and time so that they can take a breather and pull things together. Now, there’s nothing wrong with it, but sometimes this mere request can mean much more. Has your girlfriend made the same request to you and is she often finding ways to get away from you? If so, this is a sign your girlfriend wants to breakup with you. You need not remain inactive in such a situation or your worst fears may come true!
Okay now what do you do to fix this? To begin with, you need to get some idea of what went so badly wrong in your relationship, if you do not know already. Only then can you start working on the job to get your girlfriend back. If you acted like an idiot, it will be hard to face up to it and be honest with yourself. Give it a real try anyway.
This is a thought: ask your friends what THEY think the problem is. If you are really brave and fearless, ask your girlfriend‘s friends for their opinion. But watch out. You are likely to get an unpleasant earful. Stay calm. Do not get mad, even if you are sure the opinions are dead wrong. Thank the person for their thoughts and input.
If you get angry and go nuts, you are just confirming to these friends what they believed all along, that you are basically a jerk who is not right for your girlfriend. Will not give them this satisfaction. Show everyone that THEY are wrong, that you can change and get your girlfriend back. Believe me, it is really satisfying and fulfilling to prove people wrong on such an important matter.
Now you know what the problem areas are, and what you need to work on. Do not be discouraged. Above all, do not sit at home and brood and sulk, or at least not for too long. It is NOT all your fault, no matter what those so-called friends told you.
Remember this. A funny thing happens when you just sit at home in front of the TV: nothing! That’s right, nothing at all. To get your girlfriend back, you need to do something. It is unlikely to happen by itself. Take action, change, improve, do new things.
Everyone who got where they are in this life, had to start where they were. No exceptions. What about you? Why not get started right now? Use my trial and success method. Learn how to improve and succeed, by failing and learning from your mistakes!