How to Approach Women
If you ever wished to approach a random cute girl and begin a
conversation with her but yet couldn’t… then this will be the most important group of text you ever read.
Approaching women, if you
break it down, should you look at it from a detached perspective, is
simple. After all, you just need to take the 1st step or continue until you’re close enough to talk.
Close enough to get her attention, if you don’t have it already, and you start the conversation.
That simple act of walking towards her is the hardest part. Why? Because of fear. Because you’ve never done it before. Because of other excuses that pops up in your head. How do you get over this fear? More about that later.
There’s something you need to know first. This isimportant. And your success depends on whether you can pull this off or not. And that’s having a good…
That’s right. In approaching or in meeting some-one new, first impressions is critical. It is every thing.
You only have a few seconds to make her think you are confident, a success, and worth talking to. So make it count.
Attraction begins at that moment. You need to be confident, relax, and relaxed. As
you probably already know, confidence plays a huge part in attracting women.
Now… there are ways to get over your fear or anxiety. Done multiple times, you’ll have the balls to…
approach any girl you like
You begin with what’s easy. You don’t want to lift two hundred lbs of weight when you’re still skinny. That would be suicide.
So, take simple steps that are easy. Like asking a simple question with a simple answer.
Do it a couple of times or move on to something else. A longer question with a longer answer. As you gain the experience it will be easier and easier to approach all girl you see. Because you’re gaining confidence.
There’s also the three second rule. What you do is walk up to her within three seconds and not a second later.
If you do go over three secs, you’ll start thinking self-defeating thoughts. You’ll get nervous. You’ll convince yourself not to approach. You’ll think of all sort of reasons not to. She’s talking on the phone. She’s not that pretty. She’ll probably reject me. Or you’ll agree with yourself. The fix…
Don’t just stare at her for two hours without doing anything. If you do she’ll leave and you’ll feel down for letting a good chance slip by. So go over there and remember the three second rule.
Now, not all girls will cooperate and talk to you. It happens. So expect it. Don’t deny the possibility of rejection. It’s part of the game. The faster you get over it the better off you’ll be. And the faster you’ll improve.
To make it easier to accept rejection, there’s a couple of mindsets you can adopt.
Do it for fun: Since you’re doing it for fun… you don’t care what happens. You’re having fun and that’s what’s important right at that moment. And women will feel that too. If they’re fun they’ll have fun with you.
Or, you can avoid getting rejected altogether. If you can read body language, you’ll know when she’s ready to be approached.
She’ll be sending you all sorts of signals. And you’ll know if she’s
interested or not by those signals she’s sending your way. This should
tell you something…
Women want to be approached
Why? Because when you approach, they’ll feel attractive and feminine. If you don’t, they’ll doubt themselves. So, If they’re inviting you, don’t
turn them down. If you still can’t, that must be because of one other
The other thing that stops guys from approaching is they don’t know what to say to her. What to do later. And how to begin the conversation after the initial set of words.
For what to say: Once you get close, there are a couple of ways to open.
One is to go direct. Tell her your intentions directly. This shows you have balls and works much better during the day. Know that you’re forcing her to make a decision based on your approach. Is it a ‘Yes’ or a ‘No’.
An extra way to go is under the radar. You’ll begin with an innocent question and statement and let her get a “taste” of your personality. And then later on in the conversation, you get your intentions clear There after, you can talk about anything. You can use this anywhere that’s because…
There’s no place or situation where you can’t approach
You can apply it in the street, schools, clubs, cafe, library… anywhere. Whether you’re shopping, dancing, and running.So… don’t let anything stop you. Be confident. Approach immediately. or have fun.
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